Christmas is quickly approaching! Our holiday decor is almost complete! Our last bit of decorating will be on our Christmas tree, which will be purchased this next week.
I mentioned to James that I thought I would purchase matching pj's for the family to wear on Christmas Eve, then maybe have an ornament decorating activity for everyone. I wanted to know what he thought of my idea. He listened, then paused and said, "Yes, then maybe we can jump into the time-machine and go back to 1991?" We laughed together and I have since nixed the pj idea. (George will also be relieved!)
While I am a tad overly enthusiastic about the upcoming Christmas season, I do realize there are some, for which this holiday will be painful. I have several friends who have experienced loss this year and the thought of the upcoming holidays can be overwhelming.
The word of God says, "Weeping may endure for the night - but joy comes in the morning" Psalm 30:5. There are seasons where I've wept and others where I have rejoiced! Having wept through holidays myself, my heart becomes more aware of those who may be experiencing sadness / grief this year. I am encouraged with what the Bible says about those who are broken-hearted.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.
Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own
understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make
straight your paths.
Psalm 147:3
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
Psalm 73:26
My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart
and my portion forever.
Revelation 21:4
He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no
more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore,
for the former things have passed away.”
Isaiah 41:10
Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I
will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my
righteous right hand.
John 14:27
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives
do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be
afraid.
2 Corinthians 12:9
But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is
made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly
of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
Psalm 55:22
Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never
permit the righteous to be moved.
As we are all preparing for celebrating Jesus' birth, let us be sensitive to those who may need a word of encouragement, a hug, a special gift or simply a kind word. I am so thankful for the "joy" that comes in the morning.
May the Lord richly bless you all!
Much love,
Steph
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*Stephanie Henderson
www.stephaniehendersonministries.com*
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Students, Hope, Encouragement and Promises!
Romans 15:4
"Such things were written in the Scriptures long ago to teach us. And the Scriptures give us hope and encouragement as we wait patiently for God's promises to be fulfilled."
What a powerful scripture! There are several truths captured within this one verse.
1) We are students
The older I become, the more I realize how little I actually know! The scriptures given long ago were given to teach us. They teach us who God is, what His character contains, and how to become more like Him - and so much more!
A few years ago, I was introduced to inductive Bible study by very dear friends, Vic and Carolyn Talbert. Vic and Carolyn are veterans in studying the word of God and I respect them so much. Vic invited me to attend a training of inductive study at Precept Ministries in Chattanooga, Tennessee. Kay Arthur has led this ministry for years and given her life to teach others how to study the Word of God. I was excited to have this opportunity.
After about 30 minutes of my first class at Precept, I was elated and touched by the depth in the Word of God that I was taught. I have been reading the Bible since elementary school - but had never heard it taught so simply and yet so richly before. There were texts that I have read literally hundreds of times that suddenly came to life when studying this way. Learning to study inductively has single-handedly transformed not on the way I study but the way I teach in my conferences.
2) The scriptures give us hope and encouragement
We need hope and encouragement! It is so refreshing to know that no matter what I may face, God's Word has already spoken and provided hope / encouragement for my life. Not only that, knowing His Word provides opportunity to speak hope / encouragement into the lives of others.
3) We wait patiently for God's promises to be fulfilled.
I'm not the best at waiting patiently, I must confess. I would like the result now rather than later, please! However, when we exercise patience we are building our character and building trust in the promises of God. It's normal to have an ebb and flow of trust while waiting on God. Some moments I wonder, "will God come through?" and then other moments I have resounding, "Yes! God you are able!" resonating in my heart. The trust factor that is built while waiting teaches me to depend on the Word of God and not circumstances which in turn, brings spiritual maturity that I need.
I love that this scripture says, "God promises TO BE fulfilled" and not, "God's promises MAY BE fulfilled". We can take God at His word and have confidence that He is a man of integrity and will come through with what He's promised. I am so thankful for this.
Are you waiting on a promise to be fulfilled? Do you need the hope and encouragement that comes from the scriptures? Do you need to be a more diligent student in the Word of God?
You have all been so faithful to pray for our family. How can we pray for you??
We love you and are thankful for your prayers, love and concern. We are waiting on the promises of God to be fulfilled in healing our sweet son. Thank you for standing with us.
Steph
"Such things were written in the Scriptures long ago to teach us. And the Scriptures give us hope and encouragement as we wait patiently for God's promises to be fulfilled."
What a powerful scripture! There are several truths captured within this one verse.
1) We are students
The older I become, the more I realize how little I actually know! The scriptures given long ago were given to teach us. They teach us who God is, what His character contains, and how to become more like Him - and so much more!
A few years ago, I was introduced to inductive Bible study by very dear friends, Vic and Carolyn Talbert. Vic and Carolyn are veterans in studying the word of God and I respect them so much. Vic invited me to attend a training of inductive study at Precept Ministries in Chattanooga, Tennessee. Kay Arthur has led this ministry for years and given her life to teach others how to study the Word of God. I was excited to have this opportunity.
After about 30 minutes of my first class at Precept, I was elated and touched by the depth in the Word of God that I was taught. I have been reading the Bible since elementary school - but had never heard it taught so simply and yet so richly before. There were texts that I have read literally hundreds of times that suddenly came to life when studying this way. Learning to study inductively has single-handedly transformed not on the way I study but the way I teach in my conferences.
2) The scriptures give us hope and encouragement
We need hope and encouragement! It is so refreshing to know that no matter what I may face, God's Word has already spoken and provided hope / encouragement for my life. Not only that, knowing His Word provides opportunity to speak hope / encouragement into the lives of others.
3) We wait patiently for God's promises to be fulfilled.
I'm not the best at waiting patiently, I must confess. I would like the result now rather than later, please! However, when we exercise patience we are building our character and building trust in the promises of God. It's normal to have an ebb and flow of trust while waiting on God. Some moments I wonder, "will God come through?" and then other moments I have resounding, "Yes! God you are able!" resonating in my heart. The trust factor that is built while waiting teaches me to depend on the Word of God and not circumstances which in turn, brings spiritual maturity that I need.
I love that this scripture says, "God promises TO BE fulfilled" and not, "God's promises MAY BE fulfilled". We can take God at His word and have confidence that He is a man of integrity and will come through with what He's promised. I am so thankful for this.
Are you waiting on a promise to be fulfilled? Do you need the hope and encouragement that comes from the scriptures? Do you need to be a more diligent student in the Word of God?
You have all been so faithful to pray for our family. How can we pray for you??
We love you and are thankful for your prayers, love and concern. We are waiting on the promises of God to be fulfilled in healing our sweet son. Thank you for standing with us.
Steph
Saturday, December 3, 2011
Christmas Decorations and the Ultimate Preparation
Winter time in Colorado is my favorite season! This typically susprises people considering I was born and raised in New Orleans, Louisiana, where the seasons included cool weather (Winter - 50 degrees), warm weather (Spring - 60-70 degrees), hot weather (Summer 80+ degrees) and hot, hot, hot weather (90 - 100 degrees). It would "snow" in New Orleans every 10 years or so and would complete close the city due to the cold weather.
The past few days have been rather cold here due to our friends in Canada sharing the air! The weather channels begin giving the updates on the the timing of the weather change, the amount of snow to expect, etc., etc. On Thursday, our temperatures dropped 40 degrees from a lovely 60 degree day to lowering temperatures in the 20's! You could feel the air change and watch as the snow clouds began forming. It was time to make a pot of coffee, light the fireplace and enjoy the season!
While the weather change has begun I have started my Christmas decoration process! Being a decorator, this is not a normal process! It's an involved, detailed methodical plan where perfect color combination's are selected, carefully placed and executed. I love it! I love bringing the Christmas ambiance into our home.
While beginning my decoration planning, I began thinking about Mary (the mother of Jesus) and how she was preparing four weeks prior to the birth of her child. ( I realize that we do not have the exact date of Jesus' birth recorded and many believe Jesus was actually born in the spring, not winter. However, four weeks prior to having a new baby brings much preparation and anticipation in meeting your new baby.) Her situation was unique to any other birth as she was given the responsibility and honor to birthing Jesus, our Savior and Lord. Through scripture we understand that Mary was a very young woman (probably a teenager) and it's difficult to imagine what an extraordinary woman she must have been to have this responsibility trusted to her. She was trusted by God. God knew, in His infinite wisdom, that this young lady was equipped to handle the task.
When we stop and think about the hard things that come into our lives, do we consider that God is trusting us to walk through hardship and bring encouragement to others while accomplishing the task? Often times, we can get stuck in thinking "God, why me?" or "What have I done to deserve this?". I truly believe that we experience difficulty to accomplish many purposes for our lives BUT also because those in our lives are watching how we handle it and seeing a glimpse of God while we walk through.
Mary carried out a very difficult task, not only in the birth of Jesus but mothering him all the way to the cross. Her heart in obeying and honoring God is found in her first encounter when the angel revealed God's plan for her life:
Luke 1:26-38 (NIV)
The Birth of Jesus Foretold
26In the sixth month, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, 27to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. 28The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.”29Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. 30But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God. 31You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus. 32He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, 33and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever; his kingdom will never end.”34″How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?”
35The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God. 36Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be barren is in her sixth month. 37For nothing is impossible with God.”38″I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May it be to me as you have said.” Then the angel left her.
"May it be to me as you have said" was Mary's response to what the Lord was asking her to accomplish. I love the scripture that says, "She was highly favored". In other words, she was trusted. As we know from the Bible stories of Mary, she carried out God's plan beautifully.
Let our answer to the Lord continue to be, "May it be to me as you have said". Yes, Lord, we will do whatever you ask us to do for you. You can trust us - no matter how difficult the task! In verse 37 it says, "For nothing is impossible with God". He is faithful.
Stephanie
The past few days have been rather cold here due to our friends in Canada sharing the air! The weather channels begin giving the updates on the the timing of the weather change, the amount of snow to expect, etc., etc. On Thursday, our temperatures dropped 40 degrees from a lovely 60 degree day to lowering temperatures in the 20's! You could feel the air change and watch as the snow clouds began forming. It was time to make a pot of coffee, light the fireplace and enjoy the season!
While the weather change has begun I have started my Christmas decoration process! Being a decorator, this is not a normal process! It's an involved, detailed methodical plan where perfect color combination's are selected, carefully placed and executed. I love it! I love bringing the Christmas ambiance into our home.
While beginning my decoration planning, I began thinking about Mary (the mother of Jesus) and how she was preparing four weeks prior to the birth of her child. ( I realize that we do not have the exact date of Jesus' birth recorded and many believe Jesus was actually born in the spring, not winter. However, four weeks prior to having a new baby brings much preparation and anticipation in meeting your new baby.) Her situation was unique to any other birth as she was given the responsibility and honor to birthing Jesus, our Savior and Lord. Through scripture we understand that Mary was a very young woman (probably a teenager) and it's difficult to imagine what an extraordinary woman she must have been to have this responsibility trusted to her. She was trusted by God. God knew, in His infinite wisdom, that this young lady was equipped to handle the task.
When we stop and think about the hard things that come into our lives, do we consider that God is trusting us to walk through hardship and bring encouragement to others while accomplishing the task? Often times, we can get stuck in thinking "God, why me?" or "What have I done to deserve this?". I truly believe that we experience difficulty to accomplish many purposes for our lives BUT also because those in our lives are watching how we handle it and seeing a glimpse of God while we walk through.
Mary carried out a very difficult task, not only in the birth of Jesus but mothering him all the way to the cross. Her heart in obeying and honoring God is found in her first encounter when the angel revealed God's plan for her life:
Luke 1:26-38 (NIV)
The Birth of Jesus Foretold
26In the sixth month, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, 27to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. 28The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.”29Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. 30But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God. 31You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus. 32He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, 33and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever; his kingdom will never end.”34″How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?”
35The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God. 36Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be barren is in her sixth month. 37For nothing is impossible with God.”38″I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May it be to me as you have said.” Then the angel left her.
"May it be to me as you have said" was Mary's response to what the Lord was asking her to accomplish. I love the scripture that says, "She was highly favored". In other words, she was trusted. As we know from the Bible stories of Mary, she carried out God's plan beautifully.
Let our answer to the Lord continue to be, "May it be to me as you have said". Yes, Lord, we will do whatever you ask us to do for you. You can trust us - no matter how difficult the task! In verse 37 it says, "For nothing is impossible with God". He is faithful.
Stephanie
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Never Forsaken!
Psalm 91: 14
Because he has set his love upon Me, therefore will I deliver him; I will set him on high, because he knows and understands My name [has a personal knowledge of My mercy, love, and kindness--trusts and relies on Me), knowing I will never forsake him, no, never.
I love Psalm 91 in it's entirety and especially love this verse. "I will never forsake him, no, never" is a powerful promise from God.
There are times when life will present circumstances where we may feel forgotten by God. Typically, when life becomes difficult and stressful, it can be tempting to wonder why we are facing difficulty.
I know in my own life, when difficulty arises I will stop and consider where the adversity has originated. It is the result of God desiring more of my attention? Is it the result of sin (consequences). Is it because I have allowed dysfunction / chaos in my life? Is adversity present because there are areas of maturity that I need in order to progress spiritually? Sometimes one aspect can be true and sometimes all aspects can be at work in my life at the same time. Whatever the reason, I dislike pressure from difficult times and will become proactive in getting past the test and enjoying the testimony that will follow.
No matter what may happen in our lives and regardless of the reason, the comfort we have is knowing God promises to never forsake us. He will never leave us - no matter what. He will be with us to provide strength, peace, wisdom, mercy and grace for the challenge, if we allow Him. God is quite intentional in His place in our lives and equally intentional in who we become in the process.
I'm thankful for the presence of God and pray His blessings in your life today.
Steph
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Stephanie Henderson
www.stephaniehendersonministries.com
Because he has set his love upon Me, therefore will I deliver him; I will set him on high, because he knows and understands My name [has a personal knowledge of My mercy, love, and kindness--trusts and relies on Me), knowing I will never forsake him, no, never.
I love Psalm 91 in it's entirety and especially love this verse. "I will never forsake him, no, never" is a powerful promise from God.
There are times when life will present circumstances where we may feel forgotten by God. Typically, when life becomes difficult and stressful, it can be tempting to wonder why we are facing difficulty.
I know in my own life, when difficulty arises I will stop and consider where the adversity has originated. It is the result of God desiring more of my attention? Is it the result of sin (consequences). Is it because I have allowed dysfunction / chaos in my life? Is adversity present because there are areas of maturity that I need in order to progress spiritually? Sometimes one aspect can be true and sometimes all aspects can be at work in my life at the same time. Whatever the reason, I dislike pressure from difficult times and will become proactive in getting past the test and enjoying the testimony that will follow.
No matter what may happen in our lives and regardless of the reason, the comfort we have is knowing God promises to never forsake us. He will never leave us - no matter what. He will be with us to provide strength, peace, wisdom, mercy and grace for the challenge, if we allow Him. God is quite intentional in His place in our lives and equally intentional in who we become in the process.
I'm thankful for the presence of God and pray His blessings in your life today.
Steph
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Stephanie Henderson
www.stephaniehendersonministries.com
Monday, November 28, 2011
I love Thanksgiving!
A blessed Thanksgiving holiday has successfully come to a close. After 32 pounds of turkey, dressing, sides and a plethora of desserts, we can definitely say that we "celebrated" Thanksgiving! We enjoyed the company of family and friends for the holiday and reflected on many areas for which we are thankful.
One of our family traditions is to share communion together. At the conclusion of our Thanksgiving feast, the glasses were passed with juice and bread was shared as we reflected on the life we are most thankful for...the life of Jesus. The first communion is recorded in the book of Luke, in the New Testament.
Luke 22: 14-20
14 When the hour came, Jesus and his apostles reclined at the table. 15 And he said to them, “I have eagerly desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer. 16 For I tell you, I will not eat it again until it finds fulfillment in the kingdom of God.”
17 After taking the cup, he gave thanks and said, “Take this and divide it among you. 18 For I tell you I will not drink again from the fruit of the vine until the kingdom of God comes.”
19 And he took bread, gave thanks and broke it, and gave it to them, saying, “This is my body given for you; do this in remembrance of me.”
20 In the same way, after the supper he took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which is poured out for you.
As our family shared the element of communion together, we talked about the love of Jesus and how thankful we were for His blessings. It's a very special time in our family and a tradition that I personally cherish. I love the intimacy that communion brings. I always think of my sweet "Ma" when we share communion.
"Ma" is George's mother who went to heaven a couple of years ago. She loved Thanksgiving! I miss her and miss wearing our aprons together while cooking in her kitchen while she would teach me some of the Henderson recipes. Our last Thanksgiving together, I made sweet potatoes because she loved them so much. During her last weeks with us here on earth, she would enjoy having communion together with her family. It was precious to her. It became even more precious to me while sharing it with her and our family in those final days.
Communion is more than bread and juice. Communion is agreeing together that there is a common bond as believers in Christ as we reflect upon the life of Jesus who was given for us. As a family, communion is where we stop the busyness of everyday life and share hearts and love for one another.
One thing I've learned in recent years is that life truly is short. I've learned to eat on the china rather than saving it for a special occasion. I've learned to forgive more easily and love more intentionally. While not perfect, I have tried to say the words that matter, and keep silent in sharing words that hurt. I've also realized that having a heart of thanksgiving is the secret to a joy-filled life.
In this Thanksgiving season, I am thankful for you. I'm thankful for the life we share together. I am thankful for my amazing husband, beautiful children, loving parents and family. I am most thankful for Jesus and the ability to share communion with the ones I love in remembrance of His sacrifice.
I hope you've had a blessed holiday filled with much Thanksgiving!
Stephanie
One of our family traditions is to share communion together. At the conclusion of our Thanksgiving feast, the glasses were passed with juice and bread was shared as we reflected on the life we are most thankful for...the life of Jesus. The first communion is recorded in the book of Luke, in the New Testament.
Luke 22: 14-20
14 When the hour came, Jesus and his apostles reclined at the table. 15 And he said to them, “I have eagerly desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer. 16 For I tell you, I will not eat it again until it finds fulfillment in the kingdom of God.”
17 After taking the cup, he gave thanks and said, “Take this and divide it among you. 18 For I tell you I will not drink again from the fruit of the vine until the kingdom of God comes.”
19 And he took bread, gave thanks and broke it, and gave it to them, saying, “This is my body given for you; do this in remembrance of me.”
20 In the same way, after the supper he took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which is poured out for you.
As our family shared the element of communion together, we talked about the love of Jesus and how thankful we were for His blessings. It's a very special time in our family and a tradition that I personally cherish. I love the intimacy that communion brings. I always think of my sweet "Ma" when we share communion.
"Ma" is George's mother who went to heaven a couple of years ago. She loved Thanksgiving! I miss her and miss wearing our aprons together while cooking in her kitchen while she would teach me some of the Henderson recipes. Our last Thanksgiving together, I made sweet potatoes because she loved them so much. During her last weeks with us here on earth, she would enjoy having communion together with her family. It was precious to her. It became even more precious to me while sharing it with her and our family in those final days.
Communion is more than bread and juice. Communion is agreeing together that there is a common bond as believers in Christ as we reflect upon the life of Jesus who was given for us. As a family, communion is where we stop the busyness of everyday life and share hearts and love for one another.
One thing I've learned in recent years is that life truly is short. I've learned to eat on the china rather than saving it for a special occasion. I've learned to forgive more easily and love more intentionally. While not perfect, I have tried to say the words that matter, and keep silent in sharing words that hurt. I've also realized that having a heart of thanksgiving is the secret to a joy-filled life.
In this Thanksgiving season, I am thankful for you. I'm thankful for the life we share together. I am thankful for my amazing husband, beautiful children, loving parents and family. I am most thankful for Jesus and the ability to share communion with the ones I love in remembrance of His sacrifice.
I hope you've had a blessed holiday filled with much Thanksgiving!
Stephanie
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
My Hot Husband Rocks!
My husband, George, has been conducting a business conference for the past few days. The majority of information shared at his conferences focuses on one of George's passions - leadership and leadership transformation. I've attended several of his conferences and take great pride in what he shares because I know the leader he is in our home as well as in the business world. Both are exceptional, in my unbiased opinion. :)
He leads our family through his relationship with the Lord. He prays, spends time learning the Word of God and spending time encouraging all of us to reach our fullest potential. He also leads with the integrity he possesses. Integrity is not something you choose from situation to situation. Integrity is something you choose in your very core that then spills over into other relationships and situations as well. This is true of George!
In honor of the man that leads our family with such passion, I would like to share some scriptures in honor of my amazing husband!
Genesis 18:19
For I have chosen him, so that he will direct his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just, so that the LORD will bring about for Abraham what he has promised him.
Exodus 18:21
But select capable men from all the people—men who fear God, trustworthy men who hate dishonest gain—
Proverbs 10:9
The man of integrity walks securely, but he who takes crooked paths will be found out.
Phillipians 4:8
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.
Proverbs 20:7
The righteous man leads a blameless life; blessed are his children after him.
Psalm 103:13
As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him;
Proverbs 3:11-12
My son, do not despise the LORD's discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because the LORD disciplines those he loves,
as a father the son he delights in.
Proverbs 3:32
For the LORD detests a perverse man but takes the upright into his confidence.
Proverbs 17:24
A discerning man keeps wisdom in view, but a fool's eyes wander to the ends of the earth.
Proverbs 17:27
A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered.
James 1:27
Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.
George - thank you for being an incredible husband and father. You are the best! I adore you!
--
Stephanie Henderson
He leads our family through his relationship with the Lord. He prays, spends time learning the Word of God and spending time encouraging all of us to reach our fullest potential. He also leads with the integrity he possesses. Integrity is not something you choose from situation to situation. Integrity is something you choose in your very core that then spills over into other relationships and situations as well. This is true of George!
In honor of the man that leads our family with such passion, I would like to share some scriptures in honor of my amazing husband!
Genesis 18:19
For I have chosen him, so that he will direct his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just, so that the LORD will bring about for Abraham what he has promised him.
Exodus 18:21
But select capable men from all the people—men who fear God, trustworthy men who hate dishonest gain—
Proverbs 10:9
The man of integrity walks securely, but he who takes crooked paths will be found out.
Phillipians 4:8
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.
Proverbs 20:7
The righteous man leads a blameless life; blessed are his children after him.
Psalm 103:13
As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him;
Proverbs 3:11-12
My son, do not despise the LORD's discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because the LORD disciplines those he loves,
as a father the son he delights in.
Proverbs 3:32
For the LORD detests a perverse man but takes the upright into his confidence.
Proverbs 17:24
A discerning man keeps wisdom in view, but a fool's eyes wander to the ends of the earth.
Proverbs 17:27
A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered.
James 1:27
Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.
George - thank you for being an incredible husband and father. You are the best! I adore you!
--
Stephanie Henderson
Sunday, November 13, 2011
Perfect Cheese Cake - Perfect Timing
Today, I would like to focus on a passage found in I Samuel. It's the story of Hannah and the birth of her son, Samuel. Hannah was married to Elkanah and was deeply troubled because she was unable to have children. In I Samuel, Chapter one, we find Hannah's dilemma unfold as she continues to pray and ask God to give her a child.
She is praying in view of the Priest, Eli where the text picks up in verse 12:
12 As she kept on praying to the LORD, Eli observed her mouth. 13 Hannah was praying in her heart, and her lips were moving but her voice was not heard. Eli thought she was drunk 14 and said to her, “How long are you going to stay drunk? Put away your wine.” 15 “Not so, my lord,” Hannah replied, “I am a woman who is deeply troubled. I have not been drinking wine or beer; I was pouring out my soul to the LORD. 16 Do not take your servant for a wicked woman; I have been praying here out of my great anguish and grief.” 17 Eli answered, “Go in peace, and may the God of Israel grant you what you have asked of him.” 18 She said, “May your servant find favor in your eyes.” Then she went her way and ate something, and her face was no longer downcast. 19 Early the next morning they arose and worshiped before the LORD and then went back to their home at Ramah. Elkanah had relations with his wife Hannah, and the LORD remembered her. 20 So in the course of time Hannah became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She named him Samuel,[b] saying, “Because I asked the LORD for him.”
Here we find Hannah in a desperate situation. She is so visibly troubled by her barrenness, that the Priest mistakes her despair for drunkenness.
Notice in the text it says, (Verse 20), "So in the course of time, Hannah became pregnant and gave birth to a son". The scripture does not give us the exact amount of time that Hannah waited in between her encounter with the priest and when she actually became pregnant. It could have been a minute, a day or months.
Have you ever felt desperate for God to answer your prayers? Have you prayed and prayed and seemingly God is not responding? I think we've all felt this way at one time or another.
I think many times when we pray and it seems like nothing happens, we mistake having an immediate result with whether or not God is moving. God is always working on our behalf for good. II Samuel, 22:31 says, ""As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the LORD is flawless. He is a shield for all who take refuge in him". God's timing is flawless. The preparation / process is as important as the outcome. Many times, we just want the outcome!
My father is an expert baker. Anyone who has eaten one of his famous cheesecakes knows this to be true. I have his recipes and have attempted baking his cheesecakes a few times. However, they never quite taste like his! I couldn't figure out why my baked goods were falling short until I spent time with my Dad and baked a cheesecake together. Dad removed the eggs, butter and cream cheese the night before baking to make sure they are the right temperature. He measures each ingredient perfectly in the measuring cup. The spring pans are methodically painted with shortening and flour to ensure that nothing sticks. The oven racks are placed at the exact height along with a container of water which makes sure that the cheesecake bakes evenly. The cooling process is apparently important in the overall texture of the cheesecake. As we did each of these steps together, I would marvel and say, "Really? This matters??". He would smile and say, "Yes, all of this matters". The preparation is as important as the outcome.
When God knows that my heart is mature and ready to receive the answer to my prayers, He answers. When everything is aligned in the will of God to act and answer, He does. God looks at the bigger picture, the people and situations involved and acts perfectly on behalf of the greater plan. In my shortsightedness, I don't understand why I have to wait for an answer, but when the answer finally comes, I always understand perfectly. And, just like enjoying a piece of my dad's cheesecake, I'm always thankful for the process in the end. The preparation is indeed as important as the result.
Philippians 1:6 says, "being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus".
Stephanie Henderson
She is praying in view of the Priest, Eli where the text picks up in verse 12:
12 As she kept on praying to the LORD, Eli observed her mouth. 13 Hannah was praying in her heart, and her lips were moving but her voice was not heard. Eli thought she was drunk 14 and said to her, “How long are you going to stay drunk? Put away your wine.” 15 “Not so, my lord,” Hannah replied, “I am a woman who is deeply troubled. I have not been drinking wine or beer; I was pouring out my soul to the LORD. 16 Do not take your servant for a wicked woman; I have been praying here out of my great anguish and grief.” 17 Eli answered, “Go in peace, and may the God of Israel grant you what you have asked of him.” 18 She said, “May your servant find favor in your eyes.” Then she went her way and ate something, and her face was no longer downcast. 19 Early the next morning they arose and worshiped before the LORD and then went back to their home at Ramah. Elkanah had relations with his wife Hannah, and the LORD remembered her. 20 So in the course of time Hannah became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She named him Samuel,[b] saying, “Because I asked the LORD for him.”
Here we find Hannah in a desperate situation. She is so visibly troubled by her barrenness, that the Priest mistakes her despair for drunkenness.
Notice in the text it says, (Verse 20), "So in the course of time, Hannah became pregnant and gave birth to a son". The scripture does not give us the exact amount of time that Hannah waited in between her encounter with the priest and when she actually became pregnant. It could have been a minute, a day or months.
Have you ever felt desperate for God to answer your prayers? Have you prayed and prayed and seemingly God is not responding? I think we've all felt this way at one time or another.
I think many times when we pray and it seems like nothing happens, we mistake having an immediate result with whether or not God is moving. God is always working on our behalf for good. II Samuel, 22:31 says, ""As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the LORD is flawless. He is a shield for all who take refuge in him". God's timing is flawless. The preparation / process is as important as the outcome. Many times, we just want the outcome!
My father is an expert baker. Anyone who has eaten one of his famous cheesecakes knows this to be true. I have his recipes and have attempted baking his cheesecakes a few times. However, they never quite taste like his! I couldn't figure out why my baked goods were falling short until I spent time with my Dad and baked a cheesecake together. Dad removed the eggs, butter and cream cheese the night before baking to make sure they are the right temperature. He measures each ingredient perfectly in the measuring cup. The spring pans are methodically painted with shortening and flour to ensure that nothing sticks. The oven racks are placed at the exact height along with a container of water which makes sure that the cheesecake bakes evenly. The cooling process is apparently important in the overall texture of the cheesecake. As we did each of these steps together, I would marvel and say, "Really? This matters??". He would smile and say, "Yes, all of this matters". The preparation is as important as the outcome.
When God knows that my heart is mature and ready to receive the answer to my prayers, He answers. When everything is aligned in the will of God to act and answer, He does. God looks at the bigger picture, the people and situations involved and acts perfectly on behalf of the greater plan. In my shortsightedness, I don't understand why I have to wait for an answer, but when the answer finally comes, I always understand perfectly. And, just like enjoying a piece of my dad's cheesecake, I'm always thankful for the process in the end. The preparation is indeed as important as the result.
Philippians 1:6 says, "being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus".
Stephanie Henderson
Friday, November 4, 2011
Taking Notice
My good friend, Karen learned earlier this year that she had cancer. I was so sad to learn that she was ill and had to go through surgery then a regiment of chemotherapy. We have continued to communicate with each other during her surgery and therapy. We have laughed and cried while sharing experiences, praying for needs and being friends through the process. Karen has been an incredible prayer warrior for our son James through his treatment as well.
She had a PET scan this week which would reveal the results of her six month chemotherapy treatment. She received word yesterday that her cancer is gone and her scan was "all clear". It was so great to be able to celebrate her healing and share the joy that she and her family are still experiencing. We are thrilled for this report!
I realized something very profound while I was thinking of Karen's experience. Two years ago if she would have shared this news with me, I would have felt sad and I definitely would have prayed for her because I love her so much. However, the depth of compassion that I have now for someone undergoing cancer treatment as opposed to two years ago is enormously different. Isn't it true that when "life" touches us in a profound way, we are forever changed?
The first time I noticed this change was in the grocery store 18 months ago, only weeks after James' initial diagnosis. I was strolling through the aisles in my usual fashion. While zipping in and out of the produce section, I noticed someone walking VERY slowly in front of me. I began to grow impatient and wondered why they were moving at a snail's pace in my speedy lane! As I was trying to move my basket around them, the Lord spoke to my heart and said, "Take notice of this person". It took me a second to move out of my impatience and actually look at the person in front of me. The person was a little older and wearing a knitted hat over an obvious chemo-induced balding head. Within seconds, my attitude of impatience was turned to an attitude of compassion and grace. I also found myself realizing how inwardly-focused I had become.
Since that time, I now take notice of people who might be wearing wigs or hats to cover their chemo-baldness and pray for their healing. I take time to stop, stoop down and speak to small children in wheelchairs or hold the door open for Mom's struggling with lots of children in tow. Believe me, I'm not sharing this to elevate myself, it's more the realization of how out of touch with others I had become before James' illness and the Lord's prompting to simply "notice" others.
Jesus notices us. He sees our struggles and knows our areas of anxiety and greatest need. He's never too busy or tired to listen when we pray. The word of God says that He has counted every hair on our head and knows us intimately. He knows us.
In Luke, Chapter 13, there is a beautiful story of Jesus noticing someone in need:
Luke 13:10-17 (New International Version)
Jesus Heals a Crippled Woman on the Sabbath
10 On a Sabbath Jesus was teaching in one of the synagogues, 11 and a woman was there who had been crippled by a spirit for eighteen years. She was bent over and could not straighten up at all. 12 When Jesus saw her, he called her forward and said to her, “Woman, you are set free from your infirmity.” 13 Then he put his hands on her, and immediately she straightened up and praised God.
I love the scene described in this story. Jesus was teaching in one of the synagogues. It was a rather typical setting for Jesus. As he's teaching, he notices this woman who was crippled and bent over. He calls her forward, places his hands on her and she immediately was healed. Jesus noticed her. He stopped his teaching and brought attention to her need and healed her physical ailment.
We have the opportunity to be the arms of Jesus to reach out to others who are hurting. We can speak words of encouragement, strength and love to those who need kindness. Through our words and actions, we can make a difference in other people's lives simply by stopping and noticing. Additionally, God will use the most difficult trial as a catalyst for grace for those around us who are experiencing the same struggle. I believe it's the miraculous work of God who can take anything, no matter how difficult it once was, and use it for good. I am so thankful for those who have been through difficulty and take time to share their wisdom gained with me.
Stephanie
She had a PET scan this week which would reveal the results of her six month chemotherapy treatment. She received word yesterday that her cancer is gone and her scan was "all clear". It was so great to be able to celebrate her healing and share the joy that she and her family are still experiencing. We are thrilled for this report!
I realized something very profound while I was thinking of Karen's experience. Two years ago if she would have shared this news with me, I would have felt sad and I definitely would have prayed for her because I love her so much. However, the depth of compassion that I have now for someone undergoing cancer treatment as opposed to two years ago is enormously different. Isn't it true that when "life" touches us in a profound way, we are forever changed?
The first time I noticed this change was in the grocery store 18 months ago, only weeks after James' initial diagnosis. I was strolling through the aisles in my usual fashion. While zipping in and out of the produce section, I noticed someone walking VERY slowly in front of me. I began to grow impatient and wondered why they were moving at a snail's pace in my speedy lane! As I was trying to move my basket around them, the Lord spoke to my heart and said, "Take notice of this person". It took me a second to move out of my impatience and actually look at the person in front of me. The person was a little older and wearing a knitted hat over an obvious chemo-induced balding head. Within seconds, my attitude of impatience was turned to an attitude of compassion and grace. I also found myself realizing how inwardly-focused I had become.
Since that time, I now take notice of people who might be wearing wigs or hats to cover their chemo-baldness and pray for their healing. I take time to stop, stoop down and speak to small children in wheelchairs or hold the door open for Mom's struggling with lots of children in tow. Believe me, I'm not sharing this to elevate myself, it's more the realization of how out of touch with others I had become before James' illness and the Lord's prompting to simply "notice" others.
Jesus notices us. He sees our struggles and knows our areas of anxiety and greatest need. He's never too busy or tired to listen when we pray. The word of God says that He has counted every hair on our head and knows us intimately. He knows us.
In Luke, Chapter 13, there is a beautiful story of Jesus noticing someone in need:
Luke 13:10-17 (New International Version)
Jesus Heals a Crippled Woman on the Sabbath
10 On a Sabbath Jesus was teaching in one of the synagogues, 11 and a woman was there who had been crippled by a spirit for eighteen years. She was bent over and could not straighten up at all. 12 When Jesus saw her, he called her forward and said to her, “Woman, you are set free from your infirmity.” 13 Then he put his hands on her, and immediately she straightened up and praised God.
I love the scene described in this story. Jesus was teaching in one of the synagogues. It was a rather typical setting for Jesus. As he's teaching, he notices this woman who was crippled and bent over. He calls her forward, places his hands on her and she immediately was healed. Jesus noticed her. He stopped his teaching and brought attention to her need and healed her physical ailment.
We have the opportunity to be the arms of Jesus to reach out to others who are hurting. We can speak words of encouragement, strength and love to those who need kindness. Through our words and actions, we can make a difference in other people's lives simply by stopping and noticing. Additionally, God will use the most difficult trial as a catalyst for grace for those around us who are experiencing the same struggle. I believe it's the miraculous work of God who can take anything, no matter how difficult it once was, and use it for good. I am so thankful for those who have been through difficulty and take time to share their wisdom gained with me.
Stephanie
Thursday, November 3, 2011
The Gift of Joy
This morning I woke up with a real sense of joy in my heart. The weather is beautiful here and it's my favorite time of year to live in Colorado. The leaves are still changing beautifully, Pike's Peak is covered in snow and the skies are the most beautiful shade of blue. It is really breathtaking! Also, the peace of God has remained with me and for that I am so thankful.
Having true joy is real gift. I meet people all the time who haven't experienced joy in decades. I think they've even forgotten what real joy truly is. I can always tell by the way they express themselves or share their life experiences that sadly, joy is missing.
There can be many things in life that attempt to rob our joy. Circumstances, relationships, disappointments, tragedy and unexpected news can all be areas where our joy can slowly drain away. I'm not suggesting that when we go through trials that we need to have a fake smile attitude and pretend that life is grand when it's not. That's not joy or happiness! It's unauthentic at best.
Joy is a deep undercurrent in our heart that continues to run no matter what circumstances we are facing. Joy is the realization that no matter what happens in our lives, God is in control and loves us and for that we can be thankful. I believe thankfulness and joy are related. No matter what else is going on around us, we can always find something for which to be thankful.
Happiness can be temporary. If ever you've raised a teenage daughter, you've seen happiness come and go rather quickly! Our daughter, Jessica was such a joy as a teenager (and still is today). Being the only girl in our family, she introduced us to the drama that only teenage girls experience! One moment, life would be great, terrific and amazing! Ten seconds later, the world was about to end due to a life-altering situation involving who is wearing what dress to prom! If we allowed ourselves, we could have also taken a ride on the hormonal roller coaster and based our family's overall happiness by the ever-changing drama of the cheer leading squad. Happiness comes and goes and can be as hormonal as a teenager.
If joy were a deep well, then happiness would be a rain puddle. We can continually to draw from a deep well, but a rain puddle comes and goes along with the weather. I want to be a person of real, deep joy in knowing that God is always working on my behalf for good and continue to have a thankful heart.- no matter what.
The Bible has many scriptures on joy! The word "joy" in the Bible is mentioned 165 times and the word "thank" is used 114 times. Here are a few of the rich scriptures based on the word "joy".
Therefore my heart is glad and my glory [my inner self] rejoices; my body too shall rest and confidently dwell in safety. Psalm 16: 9
O satisfy us with Your mercy and loving-kindness in the morning [now, before we are older], that we may rejoice and be glad all our days. Psalm 90:14
You have put more joy and rejoicing in my heart than [they know] when their wheat and new wine have yielded abundantly. Psalm 4:7
Rejoice in the Lord always [delight, gladden yourselves in Him]; again I say, Rejoice! Philippians 4:4
I was glad when they said to me, Let us go to the house of the Lord! Psalm 122:1
The Lord has done great things for us! We are glad! Psalm 126:3
But let all those who take refuge and put their trust in You rejoice; let them ever sing and shout for joy, because You make a covering over them and defend them; let those also who love Your name be joyful in You and be in high spirits. Psalm 5:11
Honor and majesty are [found] in His presence; strength and joy are [found] in His sanctuary. 1 Chronicles 16: 27
Let the heavens be glad and let the earth rejoice; and let men say among the nations, The Lord reigns! 1 Chronicles 16: 31
The Lord your God is in the midst of you, a Mighty One, a Savior [Who saves]! He will rejoice over you with joy; He will rest [in silent satisfaction] and in His love He will be silent and make no mention [of past sins, or even recall them]; He will exult over you with singing. Zephaniah 3: 17
Be happy [in your faith] and rejoice and be glad-hearted continually (always).
1 Thessalonians 5: 16
You will show me the path of life; in Your presence is fullness of joy, at Your right hand there are pleasures forevermore. Psalm 16: 11
Rejoice in the Lord, O you [uncompromisingly] righteous [you upright in right standing with God]; for praise is becoming and appropriate for those who are upright [in heart].
Psalm 33: 1
Sing to Him a new song; play skillfully [on the strings] with a loud and joyful sound.
Psalm 33: 3
Moreover [let us also be full of joy now!] let us exult and triumph in our troubles and rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that pressure and affliction and hardship produce patient and unswerving endurance.
Romans 5: 3
Have a joy-filled day!
Stephanie
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Stephanie Henderson
www.stephaniehendersonministries.com
Having true joy is real gift. I meet people all the time who haven't experienced joy in decades. I think they've even forgotten what real joy truly is. I can always tell by the way they express themselves or share their life experiences that sadly, joy is missing.
There can be many things in life that attempt to rob our joy. Circumstances, relationships, disappointments, tragedy and unexpected news can all be areas where our joy can slowly drain away. I'm not suggesting that when we go through trials that we need to have a fake smile attitude and pretend that life is grand when it's not. That's not joy or happiness! It's unauthentic at best.
Joy is a deep undercurrent in our heart that continues to run no matter what circumstances we are facing. Joy is the realization that no matter what happens in our lives, God is in control and loves us and for that we can be thankful. I believe thankfulness and joy are related. No matter what else is going on around us, we can always find something for which to be thankful.
Happiness can be temporary. If ever you've raised a teenage daughter, you've seen happiness come and go rather quickly! Our daughter, Jessica was such a joy as a teenager (and still is today). Being the only girl in our family, she introduced us to the drama that only teenage girls experience! One moment, life would be great, terrific and amazing! Ten seconds later, the world was about to end due to a life-altering situation involving who is wearing what dress to prom! If we allowed ourselves, we could have also taken a ride on the hormonal roller coaster and based our family's overall happiness by the ever-changing drama of the cheer leading squad. Happiness comes and goes and can be as hormonal as a teenager.
If joy were a deep well, then happiness would be a rain puddle. We can continually to draw from a deep well, but a rain puddle comes and goes along with the weather. I want to be a person of real, deep joy in knowing that God is always working on my behalf for good and continue to have a thankful heart.- no matter what.
The Bible has many scriptures on joy! The word "joy" in the Bible is mentioned 165 times and the word "thank" is used 114 times. Here are a few of the rich scriptures based on the word "joy".
Therefore my heart is glad and my glory [my inner self] rejoices; my body too shall rest and confidently dwell in safety. Psalm 16: 9
O satisfy us with Your mercy and loving-kindness in the morning [now, before we are older], that we may rejoice and be glad all our days. Psalm 90:14
You have put more joy and rejoicing in my heart than [they know] when their wheat and new wine have yielded abundantly. Psalm 4:7
Rejoice in the Lord always [delight, gladden yourselves in Him]; again I say, Rejoice! Philippians 4:4
I was glad when they said to me, Let us go to the house of the Lord! Psalm 122:1
The Lord has done great things for us! We are glad! Psalm 126:3
But let all those who take refuge and put their trust in You rejoice; let them ever sing and shout for joy, because You make a covering over them and defend them; let those also who love Your name be joyful in You and be in high spirits. Psalm 5:11
Honor and majesty are [found] in His presence; strength and joy are [found] in His sanctuary. 1 Chronicles 16: 27
Let the heavens be glad and let the earth rejoice; and let men say among the nations, The Lord reigns! 1 Chronicles 16: 31
The Lord your God is in the midst of you, a Mighty One, a Savior [Who saves]! He will rejoice over you with joy; He will rest [in silent satisfaction] and in His love He will be silent and make no mention [of past sins, or even recall them]; He will exult over you with singing. Zephaniah 3: 17
Be happy [in your faith] and rejoice and be glad-hearted continually (always).
1 Thessalonians 5: 16
You will show me the path of life; in Your presence is fullness of joy, at Your right hand there are pleasures forevermore. Psalm 16: 11
Rejoice in the Lord, O you [uncompromisingly] righteous [you upright in right standing with God]; for praise is becoming and appropriate for those who are upright [in heart].
Psalm 33: 1
Sing to Him a new song; play skillfully [on the strings] with a loud and joyful sound.
Psalm 33: 3
Moreover [let us also be full of joy now!] let us exult and triumph in our troubles and rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that pressure and affliction and hardship produce patient and unswerving endurance.
Romans 5: 3
Have a joy-filled day!
Stephanie
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Stephanie Henderson
www.stephaniehendersonministries.com
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
The Shoes Always Matter!
One of the joys in my life is teaching women how to embrace the purpose God has uniquely planned for their life. The catch phrase that I teach at our conferences is "Walk Out Your Destiny...in Stilettos, of course!". I love reminding women of who they are, why they are here, and encouraging them to recapture their femininity as well! I've had a great role model in my mom who was always fashionable and loved high heel shoes. So, this teaching comes quite naturally as does my love for a great pair of heels.
My love for shoes has been multiplied since becoming a Henderson. George has introduced me to such foreign shoes as hiking boots, snow shoes, shoes for sailing, rock climbing shoes, and trail shoes as well. Each are extremely important for being married to my rugged-outdoorsy husband. I refer to us as Indiana Jones meets Pollyanna.
When we were dating, I began joining George in his outdoor adventures. One afternoon, George invited me to go sailing with him. I was really excited especially since I had never sailed in my life. I remember showing up for our date in a cute outfit complete with a pair or high-heeled wedged sandals. As I was stepping onto the sailboat, I noticed George having a quizzical expression on his face. Naively, I jumped on the boat and thought my dreams of sitting on the sailboat watching the sunset were about to become a reality.
It wasn't long that I realized that there is very little romance in actual sailing. There was no pillow for me to sit upon while the boat magically cascaded through the water. I was suddenly thrust into feeling like Gilligan to the Skipper of the boat (George). I was quickly running back and forth from bow to stern pulling ropes (which had the muck of the water covering them), taking in anchors, tying knots in odd places and trying as best I could not to allow the boat to crash into the wharf while leaving the dock. Needless to say, the high heeled wedges were quickly thrown off in order to keep myself from plunging into the water or tripping over lines. After all, I was still trying to make a good impression!
Bottom line, the shoes matter.
Depending upon which area of journey you are facing, we need to wear the right pair of shoes to indeed "Walk in a manner worthy of our calling". If the path, so to speak, is rocky and rugged currently, you definitely need to wear your hiking boots and not flip flops!
Colossians 1: 9-14 says:
9 For this reason also, since the day we heard of it, we have not ceased to pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the)knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, 10 so that you will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; 11 strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might,for the attaining of all steadfastness and ]patience; joyously 12 giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light.
13 [j]For He rescued us from the domain of darkness, and transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son, 14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.
Notice the ingredients to successfully walk the course God has planned:
1) To be filled with the knowledge of His will (God's will for my life)
2) To have spiritual wisdom and understanding (Deeper truths)
3) Walk in a manner worthy of the Lord (Honoring)
4) To please Him in all respects (Pleasing God vs. pleasing others)
5) Bearing fruit in every good work (Our good works need to yield a harvest in other's lives)
6) Increasing in the knowledge of God (His ways, purposes, plans)
7) Strengthened with all power according to His glorious might (Not our strength or power - but His)
8) Attaining steadfastness and patience joyously (Joyous patience and diligence)
9) Giving thanks for the Father (Thankful heart)
10) Qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light (through our personal relationship with Him, we are adopted as His sons and daughters)
and finally, 11) He has rescued us from the domain of darkness, transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son, in whom we have redemption and forgiveness of sins.
As we walk out the destiny God has planned for us, we can do so with such power and strength! Taking each step, we can realize that God is with us and for us. And through His word, His strength, power and provision, He has made sure that we have everything we need in order to finish the course well...including a great pair of shoes.
Steph
My love for shoes has been multiplied since becoming a Henderson. George has introduced me to such foreign shoes as hiking boots, snow shoes, shoes for sailing, rock climbing shoes, and trail shoes as well. Each are extremely important for being married to my rugged-outdoorsy husband. I refer to us as Indiana Jones meets Pollyanna.
When we were dating, I began joining George in his outdoor adventures. One afternoon, George invited me to go sailing with him. I was really excited especially since I had never sailed in my life. I remember showing up for our date in a cute outfit complete with a pair or high-heeled wedged sandals. As I was stepping onto the sailboat, I noticed George having a quizzical expression on his face. Naively, I jumped on the boat and thought my dreams of sitting on the sailboat watching the sunset were about to become a reality.
It wasn't long that I realized that there is very little romance in actual sailing. There was no pillow for me to sit upon while the boat magically cascaded through the water. I was suddenly thrust into feeling like Gilligan to the Skipper of the boat (George). I was quickly running back and forth from bow to stern pulling ropes (which had the muck of the water covering them), taking in anchors, tying knots in odd places and trying as best I could not to allow the boat to crash into the wharf while leaving the dock. Needless to say, the high heeled wedges were quickly thrown off in order to keep myself from plunging into the water or tripping over lines. After all, I was still trying to make a good impression!
Bottom line, the shoes matter.
Depending upon which area of journey you are facing, we need to wear the right pair of shoes to indeed "Walk in a manner worthy of our calling". If the path, so to speak, is rocky and rugged currently, you definitely need to wear your hiking boots and not flip flops!
Colossians 1: 9-14 says:
9 For this reason also, since the day we heard of it, we have not ceased to pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the)knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, 10 so that you will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; 11 strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might,for the attaining of all steadfastness and ]patience; joyously 12 giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light.
13 [j]For He rescued us from the domain of darkness, and transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son, 14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.
Notice the ingredients to successfully walk the course God has planned:
1) To be filled with the knowledge of His will (God's will for my life)
2) To have spiritual wisdom and understanding (Deeper truths)
3) Walk in a manner worthy of the Lord (Honoring)
4) To please Him in all respects (Pleasing God vs. pleasing others)
5) Bearing fruit in every good work (Our good works need to yield a harvest in other's lives)
6) Increasing in the knowledge of God (His ways, purposes, plans)
7) Strengthened with all power according to His glorious might (Not our strength or power - but His)
8) Attaining steadfastness and patience joyously (Joyous patience and diligence)
9) Giving thanks for the Father (Thankful heart)
10) Qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light (through our personal relationship with Him, we are adopted as His sons and daughters)
and finally, 11) He has rescued us from the domain of darkness, transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son, in whom we have redemption and forgiveness of sins.
As we walk out the destiny God has planned for us, we can do so with such power and strength! Taking each step, we can realize that God is with us and for us. And through His word, His strength, power and provision, He has made sure that we have everything we need in order to finish the course well...including a great pair of shoes.
Steph
Sunday, August 21, 2011
The Need for Light!
I've been feeling rather "blah" lately. Demotivated, unfocused and general "ehh" mindset. It's not my nature, but it happens from time to time. I couldn't really figure out the source of this lack of motivation and to be honest, I didn't even want to explore the possible reasons.
I've got LOTS of work to do and am typically excited and ready to tackle any and all projects. When these times have come in the past, the impending deadlines will be the motivator to get busy - but not this time.
I listened to a worship song last night that someone posted online. The title was interesting and it was a song that was not familiar. As the words of the song played, I felt like my heart was melting. As I continued to listen, I was faced with this wave of emotion that I wasn't even in touch with.
The Lord began to speak to my heart and said, "Steph, you're tired." As that truth resonated in my heart, I knew it was the reason I've felt so demotivated.
To say that the last couple of years have been tough is a real understatement. I'm not one who likes pity or victimization - but, the reality of what we've been through has been incredibly hard. the truth is - I am tired. I think it was the first time that I've given myself permission to say it and feel it.
I sat there and wept while I expressed in prayer the places in my heart that I needed a fresh word and a fresh touch from the Lord. As I audibly expressed the needs in my heart to the Lord - He was silent. There was no revelation given at the moment, just silence. I knew that God, my Father, was simply listening, while I poured the feelings in my heart before Him.
This morning, I read John, chapter one that says,
"In the beginning the Word already existed, The Word was with God, and the Word was God. He existed in the beginning with God. God created everything through him and nothing was created except through him. The Word gave life to everything that was created and his life brought light to everyone. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it"
In the span of my life, I've probably read this passage many, many times. However, this is what the Lord revealed to my heart through this passage this morning: "I have been there before you, I have been there with you and I am with you now. I am the one who gives life and I have created you to live a full life. The darkness (cancer, trials, tribulation, fear, sickness, disappointment, etc), can NEVER extinguish my light. I am bigger than any of these things and here to refresh the life within you."
I realized that though the past season, I've felt a little overwhelmed by the darkness of the trials. God was reminding me that no matter how dark, how difficult or how incredibly trying "life" may get sometimes, HE is greater, brighter and in control. Additionally, I needed a reminder of the life that is inside me that was created with full intention of being filled with light and not darkness.
God's word always meets me where I am I love that I can be honest and vulnerable with a Father who loves me completely and is there to speak the right word that He knows my heart needs to hear (even when I am not in touch with it!). I needed the reminder of light and life that God has for me. I also needed to say the things that were weighing my heart down to the one who could take the burden, replace it with His word and promise over my life.
I am thankful and He is so amazing -
Steph
I've got LOTS of work to do and am typically excited and ready to tackle any and all projects. When these times have come in the past, the impending deadlines will be the motivator to get busy - but not this time.
I listened to a worship song last night that someone posted online. The title was interesting and it was a song that was not familiar. As the words of the song played, I felt like my heart was melting. As I continued to listen, I was faced with this wave of emotion that I wasn't even in touch with.
The Lord began to speak to my heart and said, "Steph, you're tired." As that truth resonated in my heart, I knew it was the reason I've felt so demotivated.
To say that the last couple of years have been tough is a real understatement. I'm not one who likes pity or victimization - but, the reality of what we've been through has been incredibly hard. the truth is - I am tired. I think it was the first time that I've given myself permission to say it and feel it.
I sat there and wept while I expressed in prayer the places in my heart that I needed a fresh word and a fresh touch from the Lord. As I audibly expressed the needs in my heart to the Lord - He was silent. There was no revelation given at the moment, just silence. I knew that God, my Father, was simply listening, while I poured the feelings in my heart before Him.
This morning, I read John, chapter one that says,
"In the beginning the Word already existed, The Word was with God, and the Word was God. He existed in the beginning with God. God created everything through him and nothing was created except through him. The Word gave life to everything that was created and his life brought light to everyone. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it"
In the span of my life, I've probably read this passage many, many times. However, this is what the Lord revealed to my heart through this passage this morning: "I have been there before you, I have been there with you and I am with you now. I am the one who gives life and I have created you to live a full life. The darkness (cancer, trials, tribulation, fear, sickness, disappointment, etc), can NEVER extinguish my light. I am bigger than any of these things and here to refresh the life within you."
I realized that though the past season, I've felt a little overwhelmed by the darkness of the trials. God was reminding me that no matter how dark, how difficult or how incredibly trying "life" may get sometimes, HE is greater, brighter and in control. Additionally, I needed a reminder of the life that is inside me that was created with full intention of being filled with light and not darkness.
God's word always meets me where I am I love that I can be honest and vulnerable with a Father who loves me completely and is there to speak the right word that He knows my heart needs to hear (even when I am not in touch with it!). I needed the reminder of light and life that God has for me. I also needed to say the things that were weighing my heart down to the one who could take the burden, replace it with His word and promise over my life.
I am thankful and He is so amazing -
Steph
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
New Season...New Stilettos Needed!
Our family just completed one of the most difficult seasons of life. We could not be happier to have this chapter closed and behind us!
Our youngest son, James, was re-diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma in December of 2010. To be exact, it was December 21, 2010. The reason the date is important is because it was one year earlier - December 21, 2009, that he was diagnosed the first time.
When the results of his PET scan were shared last year, we honestly did not have words to describe how we felt knowing that James would have to endure yet another round of grueling tests, treatment, and of course, the unknown. His oncologist shared that this course of treatment would include three more powerful regiments of chemotherapy and stem cell transplant. To be honest, the concept of stem cell transplant seemed like a dark hole that I didn't understand, didn't want to understand and certainly didn't want James to have to endure.
Within five weeks, the three chemotherapy treatments were hugely successful and James was in remission. His doctor was overwhelmed with how quickly the cancer was put to rest. It was hard to really celebrate this, because we knew that stem cell transplant would begin next. However, we were soooo thankful that James was in remission.
We had to relocate our family to Denver for six weeks while James went through the stem cell process. It's like a weird science of sorts in the way they harvest his stem cells, freeze them, then return them to his body. A weird science we were so thankful for as well!
The word "intense" mildly describes the six weeks we were in Denver while James was hospitalized for transplant. It seemed that everyday presented new, and quite intimidating challenges. The risk of infection, the side affects that could present as a result of the transplant and the chemotherapy he received, fevers, rashes, etc - became the urgent subject of the day. It was odd how simple things like a slight fever moved from being "normal" to severe if they presented because of the implications on James' immune system. All of which were out of our control - but were trusted into the hands of Christ, who remains in control when we are not.
I felt like our family was in a six week triathlon of sorts. Each day, new hurdles presented themselves, and we had to be in the "game" and keep going, no matter what. Through this season, we prayed, we trusted, we questioned, we feared, we cried, we laughed...we focused. The focus was on our Father, who loves James more than we ever could, and trusting that His ways are perfect and His plans for James' life are larger than test results, side affects, cancer...etc. That was the hard part.
James completed his six weeks of transplant and has recovered amazingly well. His recent PET scan (2 wks ago) showed that his body remains in remission. The young man that emerged from the fight of his life, is mature, confidant in Christ and steady in his faith. He was accepted to a ministry position internship in Houston Texas and has moved to begin this new step in his life. We are thrilled.
When James moved to Houston, I wondered what I would do with my life? We'd been through such a tumultuous time...now what? It was almost instantly that we went from doctor's appointments almost daily - to being released with only a three month check up.
I love teaching women how to "walk in a manner worthy of the Lord" in pursuing the plan and purpose God has for them...with stilettos, of course! I realized that this new season without cancer, tests, etc. was a season for me to also step into a new season asking the question, "What now, God?"
I truly believe that life is planned by the Almighty God. I believe that He walks with us, goes before us and cheers us as we step into His plan - even if His plan involves difficulty. No matter what is happening through circumstances in life, God remains in control. The secret is to trust God's heart - even when the circumstances or my logic doesn't align.
A new journey calls for new stilettos! I'm not sure how the Lord intends to use the past 2 years of trials, but I know that no pain is wasted. I also realize that our life circumstances don't define us, but the product of what we allow God to do - or don't allow God to do, through the circumstances always will.
The desire of my heart is to remain a woman who loves the Lord, who knows His love for me, and to walk in a manner worthy of my calling...no matter what. I am so thankful for my husband, George, who intensely loves our family and remained in prayer through this time and led with such strength and love. I am thankful for Jessica and John Mark who also prayed, trusted and stood with their brother through this time. I am thankful for our family - who loves the Lord and all of us so much. What a blessing family is! Our precious friends who texted, called, prayed and believed with us are so priceless to all of us. I am thankful for our church and leadership who loves our "tribe" and remained faithfully focused on praying us through this.
This new season holds many amazing things, I believe! I cannot wait to see what's next and how God will use this time of testing in all our lives.
In my NEW stilettos,
Steph
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